The Separated Fortysomething

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The sex diaries we ran last week proved so popular we're making them a regular feature. Once a week, look to Daily Intelligencer to find out what your friends and neighbors are doing behind doors left slightly ajar. Today, the Separated Fortysomething: female, 47, East Village, event planner, straight "but waiver occasionally."

DAY 1
9:30 a.m.: Woke up for some spooning, caressing with lover of the moment, James.
Noon: Watched hilarious small penis/giant vagina episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm.
6:00 p.m.: Kisses and caresses throughout the evening. No sex though.

DAY 2
10:00 a.m.: Spooning and a few kisses.
11:30 p.m.: Got into bed and talked a bit, then got totally molested! He brought me to orgasm manually, then we made love. Spooned and fell asleep.

DAY 3
10:00 a.m.: Woke up to snuggling, which escalated to intercourse with much giggling and kissing. Afterward we just kinda hung out in bed and got into a great serious conversation about the world and shit.

DAY 4
8:30 p.m.: Went to friend Matt's to wish him a happy birthday.
11:00 p.m.: Long night: two bars, more beers. Came home and put Matt in the guest room. Drunken argument with James, but we slept together anyway, eventually …

DAY 5
11:00 a.m.: After some make-up sort of snuggling, James went to work again.
3:00p.m.: Sitting at a bar drinking with my friend Dee, realized that the seam of my jeans was hitting me just right and that if, perhaps, I were to squirm around a bit, I might be able to actually get off. Squirmed a bit but abandoned that idea.
4:00 p.m.: Still drinking with Dee. I'd slept with her years ago. She always makes remarks about us having sex again, or about her and James having sex with me. But not today.

DAY 6
Midnight: Started making out with James before we even got into bed.
11:00 a.m.: The usual spooning, snuggling and so forth, which led to randy, raucous morning intercourse. Afterward, I used my tiny little vibrator to masturbate to climax while he watched.
3:00 p.m.: Skinny-dipping in a hot tub, swimming around and hugging. More fooling around, leading to slow then sloshy lovemaking.
11:00 p.m.: Gave him a long massage, with lotion.

DAY 7
10:00 a.m.: Casual daytime kisses.
6:30 p.m.: Took a shower and he joined me. Kissing and caressing. After the shower, he massaged me a bit.
11:00 p.m.: Started making out, which escalated to him going down on me for a long while, which resulted in an orgasm. Followed immediately thereafter by lovemaking and then snuggling each other to sleep.
11:45 p.m.: Dreamed I wanted to masturbate in public, under a blanket, but I couldn't find the right spot.

Total: Six acts of intercourse, two massages, one act of masturbation, snuggling, and spooning.

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