There is a lot of kvetching on the Internet about the most recent changes made to Gmail, which have been announced since May but are just now reaching the masses. You've probably noticed them. There are new "Promotions" and "Social" in-boxes to de-clutter your main in-box, and a new tabbed interface for mobile Gmail. They're really very small changes.
Perhaps it's because we all spend hours a day with our Gmail, and seeing its interface change without warning feels betrayal-ish, like watching a dear friend go through a drop-crotch-pants phase or get really into EDM all of a sudden. Or maybe it's because we all hate change whenever it occurs. (As Anil Dash says, "the meanest thing you can do to people on the Internet is to give them really good software for free.")
But it doesn't have to be this way. You have agency. You can inveigh against change, or you can let it wash over you like water over a pebble in a mountain stream. You can complain on Twitter about the fact that you've been forced to adjust your electronic communication habits, or you can take it as an opportunity to look inward. As Ecclesiastes says (I'm paraphrasing), there is a time for complaining about Gmail, and a time for doing other stuff. This is the latter.
If you're still angry, just think about what e-mail used to look like. Remember these?
And here is what it looks like now:
See? It's beautiful. Now pause, breathe deeply, think about the entropy of the universe and the transience of all things, and marvel on the fact that Mother Gaia not only loves and cares for you, but also saw fit to give you New Gmail in the first place.