Two and a half years ago, we began a project in the magazine that quickly migrated to our website, asking one New Yorker a week to record his or her sex life anonymously—the conquests, the agonies, the onanism. Our interest was not purely prurient. We wondered what might be revealed about the city’s sex life as a whole. After 141 Sex Diaries, a picture has started to come into focus (and so have some of the Diarists themselves, bravely agreeing to show their faces). So what have we gleaned from these Diaries—not to mention from the ravenous commenters who pore over each weekly installment? An analysis of the text begins below. —Sex Diaries Editor: Arianne Cohen
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- Read All 141 Sex Diaries
- » The Therapist in a Relationship With an Older, Almost-Divorced Family Man
- » The Gay Commodities Trader
- » The Polyamorous Publishing Person in a Long-term Relationship
- » The Non-Monogamous Actor in a Very Hot Relationship on Vacation
- » The Laid-Off, Cuckolded Boyfriend With Anger Problems
- » See More
A Critical Reading of New Yorkers’ Sexual Habits & Anxieties
The Trader Who Will Fly for Sex
The Expat New Yorker Trying to Make It Work in Paradise
The Transportation Coordinator Seeing Three Partners
The Polyamorous Paralegal
The Horny Editor Visiting the ’Rents
The D.J. With a Day Job and a Flair for Fantasy
The Semi-Retired Engineer Who Has Discovered Nudism, Tantra, and Internet Porn
The Ex-Banker Living on Alcohol, Hook-ups, and Unemployment
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