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Raw poll questions and results in PDF format
 

Survey Results        

 
 
1. How many sexual partners have you had in your life?
None 3%
1 2%
2 to 5     25%
6 to 10     25%
11 to 20     15%
21 to 50     10%
51 to 99     2%
100+     3%
 

2. How many sexual partners have you had in the last three months?
None 24%
1 53%
2 to 5     15%
6 to 10     1%

Committed doesn't necessarily mean monogamous. On average, those who described themselves as "committed singles" had sex with two different people in 2001.

Women ages 30-40 had an average of 1.43 sexual partners last year, the lowest of all groups surveyed. Men in the same age group averaged 3.83 partners.

Gays/lesbians had an average of 7.58 sexual partners (the highest of all groups surveyed). Straights averaged 2.33.

 

3. How often do you have sex on the first date?
Almost always 2%
Very often 4%
Often 7%
Seldom 34%
Never     50%
 

Men are more likely than women to jump right into the sack. 21% of men said they have sex on the first date at least "often"; only 5% of women said the same. Not one woman in the survey answered "almost always."

60% of Protestants say they never have sex on the first date, as compared to 46% of Catholics and 44% of non-Christians.
 


4. How have your safe sex practices changed over the past year?
59% : No change
36% : More likely to practice safe sex
3% : Less likely to practice safe sex
The 3% that answered "less likely" amounts to 10 people. All of them were straight.
 
 
5. Have you ever...
Placed a personal ad?
16% : Yes
84% : No

Subscribed to an online dating or matchmaking service?
33% : Yes
77% : No

Called a phone sex line?
4% : Yes
96% : No

Had phone sex with someone you are dating?
40% : Yes
59% : No

Had cybersex?
11% : Yes
89% : No

Viewed or downloaded pornography online?
31% : Yes
68% : No

Practiced S&M?
6% : Yes
93% : No

Practiced bondage or used handcuffs?
16% : Yes
83% : No


21% of older (30- to 40-year-old) women and 23% of older men have placed a personal ad, as compared with 13% of younger (21- to 29-year-old) women and 7% of younger men.

49% of men say they've viewed or downloaded pornography online, versus 17% of women.

20% of gay/lesbian singles have practiced S&M; only 4% of straights have.

23% of older men have practiced bondage, but only 6% of older women have.