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The Gifts Our Senior Editor Is Contemplating for Her Anniversary

Every month, we Strategist editors tell you about the best things we’ve recently bought for ourselves. But what about the things we wish other people would buy for us? It’s a ritual for us to share our holiday wish lists, but during the rest of the year we’re also having birthdays, housewarming parties, weddingsbabies, and more. So now we’re spilling about the gifts we’d like for those milestones, as well. This time: senior editor Margaret Rhodes on anniversary gifts.

The only person I know who’s pickier than a Strat editor is the one with whom I’m celebrating a three-year anniversary. The man will drink Yuengling out of a faded wedding koozie, but to shop with him is to analyze details most of us pass over — the way thread loops through a button, or the shade of rubber on the sole of a Vans shoe. I won’t even buy a houseplant without consulting him, so in honor of our anniversary — something that’s a mutual celebration, anyway — any gift-giving we do will be something we (methodically) choose and go in on together. Here’s what I’m considering.

I never used to keep wine in the house. Buying just one bottle at a time gave me the illusion of handling money wisely, even if I would return to the same wine shop two days later, for the next bottle. I’ve grown up enough to keep a handful of bottles around the apartment, and it’s much nicer. What would be even better would be to protect them from the fluctuating temperatures of a home without central air. Some slightly more mature friends of ours got a wine cooler, and it’s such a luxury to be at home with wine that’s 62 degrees. We just rounded up the best-reviewed wine refrigerators on Amazon, and looking at them, I think plasticky-looking ones with chrome racks are out. We are a wooden-rack kind of home. This dual-zone model — one zone for reds, another for chilled reds and oranges — is simple and handsome and feels just right.

Last summer, Will knocked over a bottle of wine and stained one of his white Jungmaven T-shirts. (These are the only kind he’ll wear.) We went through rounds upon rounds of Spray ‘n Wash and shocks of cold and hot water. I think the stain is gone; he doesn’t. My solution: We take up tie-dying. With a little practice, I bet we could turn the (no longer) stained tee into a DIY version of a swirly, “eraser pink” tie-dye shirt from Jungmaven. I may try a light dye on some old bedsheets, while I’m at it. No idea where we’d watch the CD user manual, though.

And if that experiment fails, I’ll just buy him the shirt.

We moved in together a little over a year ago, and early on established a “desert disco” decorating scheme. As I type this, I realize how much that must sound like my home is an homage to Burning Man. It’s not, it’s just that we both like dusky reds and oranges, and I had a big Amada Peña print that I found on the street and wanted to keep, so we decided to offset the New Mexico–centric look with some glass, gold, metallic, and marble finishes. The scales are tipped heavily toward the “desert” side right now, so I’m in the market for a coffee table that leans “disco.” This is the one I want — it has Lucite legs!

But $900 is a lot, even for a joint gift. So I’m considering this marble table as a backup.

I’m also wondering if this table with actual brass cactus legs wasn’t divinely made just for us.