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  Post a photo. People who do receive eight times more responses! You can upload 6 photos and display 3 at a time, so go ahead and show off all your different sides on You could also be a featured profile on!
  Have your profile published in print! Check the opt-in box on the Create/Edit Profiles page and you'll have the opportunity to be showcased in New York Magazine as one of the city's most eligible singles.
  Create a voice greeting. Make yourself heard and add that personal touch to your profile, and make yourself accessible to over 100 times more users! Anyone with a telephone can listen to your voice greeting and leave you a voicemail, anytime, anywhere.  
  Attract other members by logging on to whenever you visit our site. The "online/chat now" button will appear next to your profile in search results, so others can see you're online and invite you to chat!  
  Answer all the questions on the profile creation form—they've been designed to let you express yourself and show off your personality. Be fun, sexy, sarcastic, sensitive, creative, you!      
  Update your profile as many times as you like. Keep your "Last great book I read" current, display different pictures, or relate a recent funny story.      
  Send a Wink! As long as you have credits in your account, you are free to send as many free Winks to people you're interested in.