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Displaying all articles tagged:
It’s Complicated
love and war
Aug. 19, 2022
I Will Never Share a Bank Account With My Husband
I’ll give up my name, but never my financial independence.
By
Christina Wyman
it’s complicated
June 1, 2022
Why Did Johnny Depp and Amber Heard Both Win Money in Their Defamation Trial?
A million here, a million there.
By
Victoria Bekiempis
it’s complicated
Feb. 17, 2022
Texting Is the Only Way My Husband and I Can Argue Without Destroying Each Other
Bless those three little dots.
By
Kate Willsky
nancy meyers week
Dec. 18, 2020
I Got High and Made Croissants Like Meryl Streep
Can a layperson make fancy baked goods high? Or is this a skill bestowed exclusively upon Meryl Streep in Nancy Meyers’s
It’s Complicated?
By
Rachel Handler
nancy meyers week
Dec. 15, 2020
A Chaotic Taxonomy of the Nancy Meyers Cinematic Universe
Over four-plus decades, the filmmaker has created a very specific visual language. Here is the key.
By
Rachel Handler
nancy meyers week
Dec. 14, 2020
Nancy Meyers Searches for Her Own Comfort
For decades, she’s been the foremost purveyor of onscreen hygge. Now she’s ready to retire it all.
By
Rachel Handler
it’s complicated
Aug. 18, 2020
I Never Enjoyed Sex Until I Took It Less Seriously
When my wife and I had a baby, all my planning fell apart — and I finally learned to be spontaneous.
By
Jay Deitcher
it’s complicated
May 22, 2020
I Wish I’d Realized How Bad My Ex’s Drinking Was
When we broke up, I thought it would be his rock bottom. I was wrong.
By
Steven Baker
it’s complicated
Mar. 25, 2020
My Husband Cheated When I Was 7 Months Pregnant
Before his infidelity ended our marriage during my third trimester, my husband and I shared a love of food.
By
Lauren Bans
it’s complicated
Mar. 13, 2020
I Wanted to Feel Athletic and Hot, So I Dated an Awful Jock
We didn’t have anything in common but sex.
By
Shayna Goodman
it’s complicated
Jan. 31, 2020
I Got Cheated On, So I Moved Away and Found a Rebound
It didn’t last, but that’s what was perfect about it.
By
Kate Devine
it’s complicated
Dec. 13, 2019
My Husband Left Me on the Side of the Road
It was the first time we’d laughed in months.
By
Addie Morfoot
it’s complicated
Dec. 6, 2019
My Husband’s Pop Star Ex Looks Just Like Me
Having a doppelganger was weird at first, but then she became one of my closest friends.
By
Leonora Epstein
it’s complicated
Nov. 13, 2019
I Traveled 4,000 Miles to Break Up With My Boyfriend in Person
I was afraid seeing each other again would make breaking up more painful, but it actually made it easier.
By
Suzannah Weiss
it’s complicated
Aug. 14, 2019
Insecurity Drove Me Into a Relationship
I was desperate to break my cycle of three-month flings.
By
Shayna Goodman
it’s complicated
May 14, 2019
My Husband Is a Better Person Than I Am
He remembers birthdays, he chats up the elderly, he bakes. What does he see in me?
By
Hannah Anderson
it’s complicated
Apr. 30, 2019
We Had a Beautiful, If Imaginary, Relationship
The best relationships happen in daydreams.
By
Tracy Strauss
it’s complicated
Apr. 23, 2019
The Terrible Relationship That Inspired My Novel
For a long time, I was too embarrassed to admit it.
By
Carola Lovering
it’s complicated
Apr. 16, 2019
Getting Engaged Felt Like a Death Pact
This would either end in death or litigation, with dying as the best case scenario.
By
Anna Held
it’s complicated
Apr. 9, 2019
Watching My Parents Bicker Taught Me How to Love
If marriage is a bargain, a version of
Let’s Make a Deal,
my parents were grand-prize winners.
By
Barbara Josselsohn
it’s complicated
Mar. 13, 2019
What It’s Like to Be 10 Years Older Than Your Husband
Over the years, our age gap has started to feel more like a gorge.
By
Cathy Alter
it’s complicated
Feb. 12, 2019
I Can Only Sleep When I’m Alone
Even when I’m newly in love.
By
Sarah A. Bregel
it’s complicated
Jan. 18, 2019
I’ve Been in 4 Relationships With the Same Person
But we’ve never broken up.
By
Chelsea Gray
it’s complicated
Jan. 15, 2019
How to Date in Your 70s
I no longer need to prove myself lovable. I am and I know it.
By
Jane Pollak
it’s complicated
Jan. 3, 2019
My Secret to Marital Bliss Is Refusing to Share My Money
If we don’t share it, we can’t argue about it.
By
Nell Beram
it’s complicated
Dec. 28, 2018
I Hate Getting Gifts Because I Hate Being Misunderstood
They’re material reminders that I’m not always perceived the way I want to be.
By
Sophia Ortega
it’s complicated
Dec. 18, 2018
How to Love Someone When You’re a Hypochondriac
Trying, and not always succeeding, to break out of patterns set in childhood.
By
Ashley Abramson
it’s complicated
Dec. 7, 2018
It’s Complicated: 23andMe Informed Me My Husband and I Are Related
Was our newfound connection romantic … or creepy?
By
Liane Kupferberg Carter
it’s complicated
Dec. 6, 2018
It’s Complicated: How to Miss Someone Who Isn’t Really Gone
It feels like a loss, but it isn’t as clear-cut as that.
By
Rainesford Stauffer
it’s complicated
Dec. 5, 2018
Watching the Netflix Version of the Life I Almost Had
At times,
Private Life
felt like a scripted version of my actual private life.
By
Susan Shapiro
it’s complicated
Nov. 29, 2018
It’s Complicated: I Hate Relationships and I Love My Boyfriend
I resisted monogamy because I thought I’d be bored. I am. It’s great.
By
Sophia Benoit
it’s complicated
Nov. 28, 2018
It’s Complicated: Lunch With My First Love, 20 Years Later
I imagined this meeting so many times.
By
Charlotte Flynn
it’s complicated
Nov. 27, 2018
How to Lose Your Platonic Soul Mate
How do you set boundaries for a relationship you can’t even define?
By
Sarah Kasbeer
it’s complicated
Nov. 20, 2018
It’s Complicated: The Best Place to Flirt Is Instagram DM
It’s like I’m catfishing myself.
By
Maria Del Russo
it’s complicated
Nov. 19, 2018
It’s Complicated: Love Couldn’t Save Me From Loneliness
I was surprised by how many people thought it would.
By
Maggie Puniewska
it’s complicated
Nov. 16, 2018
It’s Complicated: I Had My First Date at 28
On learning how to start from scratch.
By
Clara Artschwager
it’s complicated
Nov. 7, 2018
It’s Complicated: Nothing Sounds Worse Than Dating When You’re Grieving
I lost my ability to feel attraction. I lost my ability to feel anything.
By
Marjorie Brimley
it’s complicated
Nov. 6, 2018
It’s Complicated: Knowing I’m Bipolar Made Me Better at Dating
Treating my mental illness helped me feel stable enough on my own.
By
Dana Hamilton
it’s complicated
Nov. 2, 2018
It’s Complicated: How My Ex-Husband Accidentally Became My Good Friend
What started as something I did for our kids turned into something I did for myself.
By
Jaimie Seaton
it’s complicated
Oct. 24, 2018
It’s Complicated: I Got Married Before I Was Ready
Maybe commitment could be a path toward the person I wanted to be, not a reward for becoming her.
By
Ashley Abramson
it’s complicated
Oct. 23, 2018
It’s Complicated: Spare Me the Grand Romantic Gesture
Sometimes the small and the ordinary carry more meaning.
By
Maris Kreizman
it’s complicated
Oct. 16, 2018
It’s Complicated: The Embarrassing Private Languages of Couples
Why can’t we stop saying awful things like “diggle dog”?
By
Suzannah Weiss
it’s complicated
Oct. 11, 2018
It’s Complicated: Adventures in Dating While Christian
I didn’t mean to make my faith an ultimatum. Not at first, anyway.
By
Addie Stuber
it’s complicated
Oct. 9, 2018
It’s Complicated: Dating Without Texting Is the Absolute Best
It’s exhausting. So why do it at all?
By
Clara Artschwager
it’s complicated
Oct. 4, 2018
It’s Complicated: Growing Up in a Family Like Mine Made Me Terrified of Conflict
I shut down even at necessary confrontation.
By
Nora Whelan
it’s complicated
Oct. 2, 2018
It’s Complicated: The Wedding Forum That Helped Me Leave My Abusive Ex
I couldn’t talk to people who knew me. So I tried people who didn’t.
By
Bridey Heing
it’s complicated
Sept. 27, 2018
It’s Complicated: Surviving the Embarrassments of Dating in a Foreign Language
Not easy for a perfectionist who hates being wrong.
By
Radhika Sanghani
it’s complicated
Sept. 25, 2018
It’s Complicated: My Marriage Was Open, But I Couldn’t Get a Date
So I lied.
By
Lira Kellerman
it’s complicated
Sept. 20, 2018
It’s Complicated: The Time I Scheduled a Heartbreak 3 Months in Advance
I knew he was moving. We stayed together anyway.
By
Kathleen Wong
it’s complicated
Sept. 18, 2018
I Live Like I’m a Plus-One to My Own Life
The silent-meditation retreat that gave my marriage a makeover.
By
Maria Teresa Hart
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