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What’s the Best Housedress?

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If there was ever a fitting time to embrace the housedress, this housebound moment is it. “I’m not sure any other attire would feel so appropriate,” says Lauren Mechling, writer and @thecloglife creator. “In normal times, they are easy, forgiving, and an instant conveyor of ‘effortless chic,’” and these “uniquely shapeless days” call for appropriately shapeless attire, she adds.

Rachel Syme, a staff writer at The New Yorker who chronicled her poignant caftan journey back in 2014, says the garment “really is one of those things you can put on and really feel different. You can be whoever you want under there!” There’s also an empowering element to reclaiming the kind of comfortable, loose silhouettes previously maligned: “I remember the idea that women who wore shapeless garments somehow had let themselves go — which I don’t think is the case, but I also think that the demonizing of ‘letting yourself go’ is something we need to start pulling back on, especially right now,” Syme says.

Ahead, stylish writers, stylists, influencers, and a former costume designer share their favorite housedresses, caftans, and other billowy dresses that will make a sweltering summer largely spent at home a little more bearable.

Best under-$50 housedresses

Former costume designer and Strategist contributor Alison Freer says she’s been wearing “some version of a housedress for at least 25 years.” She’s always liked that it’s “machine washable, needs little to no ironing, and is comfy enough to nap in yet chic enough to wear out at a bar, back to bed, then out for breakfast the next morning.” Among her favorite places to find housedresses is Blair, a small-town Pennsylvania retailer that dates back over a century. “If you want affordable housedresses, you need to go where the grandmas go,” she says.

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Colu Henry, New York Times food columnist and author of Back Pocket Pasta, fell in love with caftans around 2011 when she stumbled on Laughing Cherries, a company that makes cotton drawstring-waist caftans: “I put it on, and I felt elegant,” and her housedress obsession began there. “I can’t tell you how many I’ve bought of those in different prints,” she says. “The more worn in they get, they become more housedress than ‘out’ dress.”

“My main goal in life is to be comfortable at all times, and a housedress is the absolute pinnacle of comfort,” Freer says. “Plus, there are usually pockets involved.” She says to look for pockets “large enough to hold your phone, a pack of tissues, and a lip balm,” and recommends “a housedress with a small cap or flutter sleeve, so you can wear it on days where you don’t want to bother shaving your underarms.” Finally, don’t overlook length: This one, which “just barely grazes the top of your knees, so you can bend over in the yard without flashing the world,” is just right.

“This Vinkis dress has been following me around on Instagram, and now that I see it’s under $50, I think I’m going to buy it,” Mechling says. The ideal housedress, she says, has “soft, thin fabric, loose shoulders, generous underarms, a waist that would accommodate a Hula-Hoop” — and, finally, nap-ability. “The dream iteration is one you can fall asleep in and will double as a nightgown. Caftan life is not bounded by time of day,” Mechling adds.

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Freer has found gems on the vintage site Rusty Zipper, which “consistently has an incredible selection of vintage housedresses, muumuus, and caftans,” she says. “They are the real deal, selling vintage on the web since 1995. Their buyers have amazing taste, and their prices are very fair.” One of her purchases — she bought it so long ago she was still “using AOL dial-up” — looked like this ’60s piece. For vintage newbies, Freer says to measure “a garment you already own and love the fit of; it’s the best way to determine if something is going to work, and most vintage sellers take measurements with the item laying flat, so it’s easy to compare.”

Best under-$100 housedresses

In addition to Blair, Freer suggests perusing the Vermont Country Store, another “go where the grandmas go” favorite of hers, for options like this beachy fish-print dress.

A similar recommendation comes from Maria Del Russo, writer and author of Simple Acts of Love. “Believe it or not, Country Store has some adorable options,” she says of the online general store that started years ago as a catalogue. She’s planning on buying this seersucker housecoat with a front zip and smock yoke. “I feel like a glamorous lady whenever I put on a housecoat with a fun pattern,” she says.

Freer also swears by Dillard’s, where she remembers shopping with her mom as a kid in Texas. She recently bought this chambray patio dress there because she’s “a sucker for cheerful motifs like ladybugs, strawberries, and rainbows,” Freer says. If critters are too cutesy for you, she suggests this denim one with a floral embroidery.

Mechling recommends Salter House, a hip general store in Brooklyn Heights, for its nightdresses, which are “all under $100 and absolutely lovely,” she says. “Their look is very sleepy Portuguese aristocrat.”

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For a slightly less homespun take on the housedress, style blogger Sade Akinsanya likes the maxi and midi dresses from indie British label Kitri. “They’re brilliant transitional pieces that I can wear in the summer with a headscarf, espadrilles, and a basket bag, or layered up in winter with tights, boots, and a leather jacket,” she says. She owns this rather sunny maxi that happens to be on sale right now.

Best under-$200 housedresses

A nap dress offers some of sleepwear’s most desirable qualities (breathable, ideally all cotton) with details too pretty to solely sleep in. “I’ve been pinching pennies for this dress,” Del Russo says. “It’s definitely closer to the nightgown side of the housecoat spectrum, but it’s so beautiful that I would never sleep in it.”

Though Del Russo is not typically interested in long-sleeved housedresses (“They make me feel like I’m wearing a robe,” she explains), she would make an exception for this “amazing dressing gown,” which is currently at the top of her wish list. (There’s only extra small left, but this one’s similarly charming — and on sale.)

Odd Molly Memorable Long Dress
$125
$125

Akinsanya also recommends Swedish retailer Odd Molly, which has excellent patterns and lots of voluminous silhouettes.

Syme typically sticks with vintage when it comes to caftans, but for new options, she likes “some of the drapey dresses you can get these days from Universal Standard.”

Henry also recommends Emerson Fry’s cotton caftans, which come in really pretty patterns and have a covered, cinchable waistband for some shape (one of the most important caftan details in Henry’s opinion). Also consider Pax Philomena’s maxi caftans: A personal favorite of mine, they’re similar to Emerson Fry’s styles in price and silhouette — they have the same hidden belt — but come in bolder, more saturated prints. I live in this glamorous Paradise style, currently available on preorder.

Best under-$300 housedresses

Henry likes the “elegant, slimmer cut, more tailored” caftans from U.K. brand Toast. She prefers her caftans understated — “I don’t want sequins; I’m not a bejeweled sort of lady, unless it’s for a special occasion,” she says — and these earthy, garment-dyed linen pieces are unfussy but still stylish.

Ace & Jig Faye Dress
$237
$237

Mechling says Ace & Jig is one of her go-tos for around-the-house dresses. This one has an elastic waist, is made of 100 percent cotton, and comes in eight prints — plus it’s available in extended sizing (up to a 4X).

Another one of Mechling’s favorites is Matta, an indie label known for its rich patterns and lightweight cotton voile, like this abstract tiger-print style.

“I think the modern resurgence of housedresses started with this Ganni dress that is basically a nightgown you can wear to the grocery,” Freer says. “It’s part of the collective realization that you don’t have to be in pain to look cute. All it took was a pandemic — and people trying to work on their sofa in real-world clothes — for us to figure it out.” Freer’s black-and-white version from the hip Danish brand is mostly sold out, but this slightly more colorful style is still in stock (and just as cool).

“I love the housedresses from Wagner Uniform, a label that my next-door neighbor Antonia Wagner Belt started,” Mechling says, praising this gingham option’s not-just-for-quarantine aesthetic. “These are comfy, stealthily structured housedresses that you can wear to job interviews once this is all over,” she notes.

Best splurge-worthy housedresses

Karina Marriott, the U.K.-based founder of the Style Idealist, has been living in this popular design by Sleeper. “It’s my favorite dress to wear whilst being at home in lockdown. It always makes me feel good and gives me that boost of positivity when I start the day,” Marriott says. She was drawn to the “incredibly flattering and flowy” cut and likes that it’s 100 percent linen. She calls it “the perfect dress for any occasion, including dressing up at home.”