What Patricia Altschul of ‘Southern Charm’ Can’t Live Without

I love to watch old movies, especially this one because Mame is my role model — I adore her madcap antics and her fabulous eye masks. And, of course, her sleepwear with feathers, mesh, and satin. She’s certainly someone I relate to.

Not only does this lip treatment moisturize, but it’s super nourishing and protective, with anSPFof 15. I use it daily when I’m at home, or when I’m traveling, too.

This is the absolute essential tool for creating my five o’clock cocktail. Michael uses this every day when it’s time for my “medicine,” the perfect gin Martini. Using the mallet actually crushes the ice to the ideal consistency for me.

I’ve had Porthaultlinenssince the 1960s. Some I’ve had for 30 years, and they just keep getting softer. My absolute favorites are the ones from the Marie Antoinette collection.

This lasts longer than any othernail polish. It has a wide brush that’s super easy to apply, and the staying power is just amazing. My nails never break!

This fragrance is delicate and not overpowering at all. I adore the lily-of-the-valley floral notes, and people are always stopping me to ask, “What scent are you wearing?” Plus, the bottle is gorgeous.

In my book,The Art of Southern Charm, I stress the importance of handwritten notes. To write a proper note, you need properstationery— in fact, you need a selection of both formal and informal. I prefer cream-colored cards with the family crest, letter sheets with a custom monogram, and fold-over notes with my name. If you must choose one all-purpose piece of stationery, a monogrammed card is the most versatile.

Whenever I am lucky enough to have my makeup done professionally, this is my go-to foundation. It lasts all day and imparts a flawless finish with excellent coverage (and doesn’t feel heavy on my skin). It looks great on and off camera.

These are perfectly embellished, and the most comfortable and chic flats I have ever owned. I have them in every color and just recently wore them onWatch What What Happens LiveWith Andy Cohen.

My line ofcaftans! They combine crystal and pearl embellishments in a custom caftan featuring your very own pet (dog, cat, horse, bird, even fish) — mine is the one withChauncey, my pug. It’s handcrafted in India, and can be worn from the beach to a barbecue to a cocktail party or black-tie event.