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22 of the Coziest Things the Strategist’s Written About (That Would Make Good Gifts)

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Now that fall is officially underway, it’s time to get cozy. Well, cozier, since many of us have already been living in lounge pants and oversize T-shirts since March. We’re talking warm socks, thick blankets, comfy pajama sets, and all the candles and incense. The fact is, the pandemic will force many of us to spend even more time than normal indoors this winter. Instead of getting sad about it, why not get prepared? We went through all our past soul-warming content to find the items that will bring people the most winter joy — whether they’re binging TV or taking a well-deserved nap.


The Bearaby Tencel Napper has been one of our Strategist 100 gifts for a reason: It’s not filled with plastic or beads like other weighted blankets, just made from cotton and a plant-based material called Tencel. And best of all, it’s breathable, letting them keep the coziness going year-round.

A majority of people are side sleepers, which can be tough on the body. But Sarah Riccio, a senior writer at sleep-product review site Sleepopolis, put us onto this cloud-like side-sleeper pillow from Eli & Elm. It “features an ergonomic design that conforms to the precise contours of your head, neck, and shoulders so you’re always supported as you roll from side to side,” she says. But what makes it cozy is the supportive latex and polyester filling that you can just melt into.

Few objects say I love and care deeply about you like cashmere. Interior designer Grant K. Gibson told us this ribbed cashmere throw from Ben Soleimani is a dream, with a lovely texture that complements the soft cashmere material. “These throws make you want to curl up with a book all day long,” he says.

If nearly $500 seems a bit steep for a blanket-based gift, there’s always this Calvin Klein vintage-inspired throw blanket, which is as easy on the eye as it is to cuddle up underneath according to interior designer Nick Olsen.

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For more than 150 years, Pendleton has essentially been the Dyson of wool blankets (including the high prices). This washable wool blanket, recommended by stylist Emily Henderson, is an affordable entry point for people who one day aspire to own a $400 blanket from the Oregon-based company.


If you equate coziness with total and complete darkness, Strategist writer Rio Viera-Newton recommends copping this incredibly affordable memory-foam mask from MZOO. “As it turns out, memory foam is the perfect material for an eye mask: Just as a good memory-foam mattress forms to your body, this memory-foam eye mask forms perfectly to your eyes, sealing them from any outside light,” she writes. “It also happens to be thick, bouncy and cushiony — so if you happen to sleep on your stomach, like me, it almost feels like resting your face on another mini pillow.”

In September, Strategist writer Lauren Ro purchased this supersoft sheepskin runner rug for her closet after spotting a similar one in Liv Tyler’s home. “As soon as it arrived, my toddler dove onto it and started rolling around like a dog, literally giggling with glee at how nice it felt,” says Ro. “We were both immediately obsessed. I still love the inexpensive ones from Ikea we’ve collected over the years, but these are the real deal.”


The lifelong search for coziness really begins at birth, which is why if you know someone who’s about to become a parent for the first time, you should gift them the expert-recommended Bbhugme Nursing Pillow. According to boober founder Jane Shapiro, it’s “lightweight, super practical, easily adjusted, extremely comfortable, and is the only pillow that places a newborn at the correct height and position for breastfeeding.” In other words, cozy for mom and baby.

There are a ton of fancy, memory-foam beds out there for dogs (and people who love their dogs), but that doesn’t make them especially cozy. For that, you’ll need the Best Friends Donut Cuddler, which is not only a favorite of animal behaviorist Jessica Gore, but owned by three Strategist staffers. Strategist writer Liza Corsillo says she can’t get her anxious, 10-year-old pup Uli to leave this bed: “She cuddles up in the bed for hours every day and when I call her to come sit next to me on the couch, she lifts her head and sort of raises one eyebrow at me before tucking her chin back into the bed’s fluff,” she says.


There’s not much worse than warm, just-out-of-bed feet meeting a freezing tile floor. To avoid this, give them the gift of Glerups, our favorite wool slipper that can be worn inside or out. As Strategist senior writer Karen Iorio Adelson puts it, “They’re comfortable for walking around, and the wool feels warm, soft, and not at all itchy.”

Three years ago, Cup of Jo founder Joanna Goddard turned us onto Eberjey’s line of pajamas, and, to be honest, we’ve never looked back. To this day, these soft, buttery, never wrinkle PJs are still one of our most stood-behind gifts.

If you know an expectant or new mom who needs great loungewear, gift her this soft knit onesie from Hatch Collection. Ritual founder Katerina Schneider says it’s structured enough to walk out the door in, but comfortable enough to laze around in.

Resident cool person Chris Black put us onto this gorgeous lambswool chunky knit hat from Scottish brand Inverallan. He says it will “warm your dome during those chilly winter walks on the beach in Nantucket with your father-in-law.”

If you have a hiker in your life who needs new wool socks, gift them a pair from Vermont-based company Darn Tough. Ashley Manning, a thru-hiker and river manager at Adrift in Utah, told us she usually goes through socks “like crazy, but I’ve had a pair from Darn Tough for seven years that are only now showing signs of wear.” Plus they have a lifetime warranty.

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For the cozy men in your life, consider these stretch sweatpants, one the best loungewear items for men. They’re soft enough to relax in, but also structured. “They’re cut sleekly, and made from durable fabric,” says illustrator and co-founder of NYR Comics Lucas Adams. “But, most importantly: The ankles are cuffed, unlike other pairs, whose ankles are unflatteringly loose.” (They make very flattering sweatpants for women as well.)

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Or if you want to give someone the gift of head-to-toe comfort, there’s this adult gym-sweats set, which Regular Visitors co-founder Daniel Sorg would have stocked if he still had his store. “[Founder Julie O’Rourke’s] new beautiful sweat sets are made out of 100 percent organic French terry cotton (milled in L.A.),” he says. “Each piece is plant-dyed in-house using roots, berries, bark, flowers, leaves, lichen, or wood.”

Bath Accessories

Cyndi Ramirez-Fulton, founder of Chillhouse spa says, “I wear mine after I shower every day,” adding that “the price is palatable, and I hate when I wear a robe at a hotel that doesn’t actually dry me off — this one does.”

Nothing ruins a great shower or bath like a subpar towel. That’s why home stager Meridith Baer recommends these Turkish bath towels, which she calls “thick and luxurious.”


If you’re looking for an affordable, cozy gift, Chris Black recommends the incense sticks from Japanese maker Nippon Kodo, particularly the lotus-scented pack, which he says can “set the tone for a calm day.” (Personally, I’m a huge fan of Nippon Kodo’s jasmine incense sticks.)

If you’re looking for a cozy candle for dudes, Black swears by Byredo’s Ambre Japonais candle, featuring “a blend of coriander seed and black pepper with a little bit of bourbon and vanilla on top.”

A few years ago, Strategist editor Katy Schneider wrote about the cult-favorite palo santo sticks from Brooklyn brand Incausa. “I was wary of the incense, as I am of all scented things — I get migraines, and even the mildest candles and perfumes make my head swim,” she wrote. But these were different, they were cozy, “like a velvet couch or cashmere pajama pants,” she says, and not at all overpowering.

And the be-all-end-all of cozy candles for the millennial set will always be Boy Smells Kush with its mixture of “pot, suede, white musk, tulip and amber” scents. In other words, it’s heavy, but not too heavy, making it a one-size-fits-all as far as giftable candles go.

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22 of the Coziest Gifts the Strategist Has Written About