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Ask the Strategist: What Are Some Shoes for 1-Year-Olds That Actually Stay On?

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I have an extremely busy and active 1-year-old daughter and NO shoes stay on her feet!! I’ve tried so many, bought so many, returned so many. Perhaps you’ve already done something like this, but can you help me find baby shoes that will actually stay on my toddler’s feet?

If your daughter is anything like Strategist editor Alexis Swerdloff’s enterprising toddler, who was able to remove his shoes and socks even when they were taped to his feet with masking tape, then perhaps the only solution is to try footed pants, like she did, to keep his feet warm. Otherwise, if you’re looking for shoes that don’t fall off, I’ve got a few ideas for you. They come courtesy of a (very unscientific) poll I conducted among my parent friends and the company parent group on Slack, plus a couple of personal recommendations that I swear by. There’s no guarantee that your daughter won’t be able to pull them off, though, because, as one parent notes, kids can take off any shoe if they’re determined enough.

I realized early on that socks don’t really stay on babies’ feet, in part because of their chubby ankles and the fact that they’re always fidgeting and kicking their tiny legs. Zutanos solved that problem for me. They’re fleece booties with button snaps that are virtually unopenable for little hands. While they’re more of an indoor shoe — they’re great as “house slippers” — or a replacement for socks, they can certainly be worn outdoors as long as your child won’t be doing too much walking.

If a shoe like the Zutanos is more your speed, Melissa Young, an engineering manager at Vox Media, prefers soft-soled leather moccasins for her kids, like these from Pidoli that have a rubber sole. Not only are they flexible, but they stay on: “They are elastic at the ankles, so they definitely don’t fall off while active,” she says. As for their durability, “It’s never been an issue while playing outside.”

We got these from a local shoe store as his first real pair of shoes when my now-18-month-old turned 1. He’s since outgrown them, but he wore them constantly the past few months. And they still look good. I love that they have that flexible, rounded sole and toe, which are recommended for new walkers, and cute detailing, like elasticized “laces,” a sporty stripe, and a Velcro closure. They also always stayed on his feet, from his first wobbly steps to when he started running around everywhere.

When the weather got warmer, I also got Augie a pair of classic Crocs. There must be something about the comfy rubber and friendly shape (and holes) that kids find irresistible because he adores wearing them (other parents agree that Crocs are a hit with kids). And they always stayed on his feet (with the ankle strap on). As my friend Katie Starros put it: “Yes, the child can take them off, but they don’t fall off.” For water activities, they can’t be beat. They have good grippy soles too. (Three out of the 31 parents I talked to were fans of Crocs.)

Native Shoes are “wildly popular,” according to one of my pollees, and were by far the most recommended brand, with eight shout-outs. Like Crocs, they’re a summer favorite for their lightweight EVA body. Unlike Crocs clogs, they’re a fully enclosed shoe without a strap to fuss with, so they might work better for your daughter.

Now that we’re approaching fall, you’ll want to start looking at some non-holey shoes. Augie’s newest pair is from Pediped, which also got a couple of mentions. Like the Old Soles, these have a rounded and flexible sole and cushy padding. But I have to say, even though they look super-comfy, they’re not very “cool.” I guess you could say they’re charming in that fat grandpa-sneaker way. This particular pair (available in navy blue, berry, and other colors) has two Velcro straps, and even though Augie loves playing with them, he never actually manages to remove them.