Congratulations! It’s now been a full year since you and your husband or wife recited your wedding vows in front of your family, friends, and those other people your mom insisted on inviting. Now’s the time to defrost that slice of year-old wedding cake and celebrate your first anniversary. Whether you’re enjoying a special dinner out or going on a little getaway, you’re probably also trying to figure out the perfect gift for your spouse.
According to tradition, first-anniversary gifts should be made from paper. Of course, a simple love note would qualify, but if you want more options to choose from, we’re here to help. For this guide, we dug through our extensive archive of expert-recommended products to bring together the best paper gifts for all types of couples — from cocktail napkins for consummate party hosts to temporary wallpaper for renters. And when you make it to your next anniversary (and the ones after), we have you covered there, too. We’ve also compiled picks for second-, third-, fourth-, fifth-, sixth-, seventh-, eighth-, tenth-, 20th-, 25th-, and 50th-anniversary gifts.
For the couple that hasn’t made a wedding album yet
For the couple that always has flowers around the house
For the couple that does crosswords together
According to crossword expert Adrienne Raphel (the author of Thinking Inside the Box: Adventures With Crosswords and the Puzzling People Who Can’t Live Without Them), this collection of 200 Sunday crosswords from the New York Times contains “the juiciest puzzles.”
For the couple with big ideas
Fashion stylist and designer Lori Goldstein says one of Smythson’s tiny, leather-covered notebooks is “perfect for a nightstand, where it is poised to take in late-night thoughts.” We should add that the notebook would be just as poised for taking in thoughts from just about anywhere, thanks to its compact size.
For the couple with a modern home
Laura Fenton, the author of The Little Book of Living Small, says “this genius sculptural stool” that’s made out of paper and reminds her of a Noguchi lamp will add a design-y touch to any room without taking up too much space (or breaking a budget). It has a felt seat and “collapses down to flat and weighs next to nothing,” making it easy to store when not in use.
For the couple with a modern home (that has enough seating)
For the couple that hosts the best parties
Strategist senior editor Anthony Rotunno likened Caspari napkins to “tiny works of art.” (The brand actually does collaborate with museums and cultural institutions on its designs.) These Blue Willow china–esque napkins would be worthy to place beside that china from their registry (even if the patterns don’t match).
For the couple that wants to be less wasteful
For the couple that meditates together
The teachings of psychologist and meditation teacher Tara Brach are recommended by therapists for exploring mindfulness practice.
For the couple who loves to host game night
According to Strategist writer Liza Corsillo, this Bob Ross–themed bingo game is a twist on the classic that’s fun for all ages. Instead of playing cards filled with numbers, she writes that “each square says something like ‘happy little trees,’ ‘big ol’ brush,’ or ‘find freedom on this canvas’ — things Bob himself said multiple times per episode on his show.”
For the couple with daily Co–Star app notifications
For the couple that wants to zhuzh their blank walls
This poster by graphic designer Milton Glaser (one of the co-founders of New York Magazine) was originally created for an exhibition at the School of Visual Arts in 1967. The larger three-feet-by-two-feet size is big without being too big, but it comes in less expensive smaller sizes too, if they’re short on wall space.
For the couple that really wants to zhuzh their blank walls
If they live in a rental or are just not ready for a long-term décor commitment, removable wallpaper can transform a space … for the time being. Home decorator Carrie Carrollo recommends trying this bold Scalamandré print that you might recognize from The Royal Tenenbaums.
For the crafty couple
For the couple that looks forward to laundry day
Indulge their passion with these scented drawer liners from French fashion label Lemaire that we’ve written about before. Tucked in a drawer, one will keep their clean clothes smelling fresh long after they return from the cleaners (or come out of the washer and dryer). The brand says the five included sheets will last “for several months.”
For the couple that values good design
Each page of this notebook (writer Molly Young’s favorite), features a different grid design, from simple dots to a triangle-pattern grid, so it’ll appeal to couples who notice the little details. “The grids are all bold enough to provide structure but faint enough to foreground your writing,” says Young.
For the couple that needs a place to keep their rings (or other small trinkets)
Because of its material, this sweet bowl that we’ve suggested as a great Valentine’s Day gift would also make for an excellent first-anniversary gift. You’d never know on sight that it’s papier-mâché. The bowl would be perfect for keeping rings and other small valuables organized. While the piece is one of a kind, the Etsy seller that created it can make custom orders, which always adds a level of thoughtfulness to any gift.
For the couple that loves live music
For the couple that prefers snail mail
Letter-writing might be a lost art in our age of email and DMs, but if your recipients keep up the tradition, buy a set of this affordable personalized stationery. Margaret Shepherd, a calligrapher, says knowing you didn’t spend a fortune on your stationery will make you more likely to regularly use it.
For the (fancy) couple that prefers snail mail
Or, if you have the money to spend, you can go with note cards from Mrs. John L. Strong, longtime supplier of stationery to high-society types like Jackie Kennedy and Anna Wintour. According to Jon Call, the founder of the design firm MCD, “There is something nostalgic yet timeless about this little luxury.” We think the snake design keeps them from feeling too buttoned up.
For the adventurous couple
When we tested this pocket-size notepad, we were impressed that the pages could get wet without looking waterlogged or smearing the ink. It would be a smart choice for the couple that keeps records of their travels to far-flung locales (even if they aren’t able to visit them this year).