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What Is the Best Lingerie?

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Buying lingerie is one of those ultrapersonal choices that really should be more for the wearer than the gifter. Some women favor ultrasheer, lacy options when they’re lounging (or for special occasions), while others go for tamer, high-waisted options that feel more structured. Here, we interviewed more than a dozen designers, models, and lingerie wearers on their skivvies of choice — wearing them might make you arouse even yourself, as one writer put it.

Underwire lingerie

Dora Larsen High Apex Underwire Bra

To get that “lifted” look without having to wear a push-up (or if you just need more support), slinky underwire options are a good idea. In this realm, we’ve heard great things about Dora Larsen, an experimental line launched by a former lingerie buyer, which specializes in a more colorful, lacy approach to lingerie. Natalie Suarez (a.k.a. blogger “Natalieoffduty”) added one of their bras to her holiday wish list last year, saying, “This is such a romantic bra with a really cool and beautiful color palette. It will work so well under little silk dresses.” The color blocking reminds us somewhat of swimwear — a tropical pink and yellow here, a pastel blue or mint green there — so they’re ideal if you get bored with traditional black and nude styles.

Dora Larsen Maddie Low Rise Bikini
Agent Provocateur Lorna Plunge Underwire Bra

Model Naomi Shimada has a similar color ethos when it comes to lingerie. Two years ago, she decided to stop buying black underwear completely (“I’ve still struggled to find fun designs that are colorful and flattering at the same time”) and found that Agent Provocateur, the storied French label known for their racy designs, actually made bras in her size (34E/F). “I love that their palettes feature colours I’ve never seen anywhere else.” She owns and recommends this plunging, light brown set, which would be ideal for someone with a larger bust size, but you can also find three-piece sets at AP for the whole shebang, plus body chains and silky slips and cover-ups.

Agent Provocateur Lorna Thong
Negative Underwear Essaouira Demi Bra

If you don’t consider yourself a “lingerie” person — maybe you run on more of a minimal Baserange frequency — you may want to try Negative Underwear. It’s a brand that we love for a high-design, understated look. Communications manager Vanessa Remoquillo’s a fan, too, and while she says they’re not really conventional lingerie so much as functional underwear, “the styles are incredibly sexy, with the added benefit of being supremely comfortable — which makes me feel all that much more confident when I put them on. I’ve never been one for lacy things, so I love how these are subtle and sophisticated. They seem to say: I know myself and I know my body.”

Negative Underwear Essaouira Bikini
Fleur du Mal Convertible Underwire Bra
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Fleur du Mal Convertible Underwire Bra

For modern lingerie that evokes a boudoir style, Fleur du Mal is another one to know. A favorite of fashion types — Sienna Miller loves a FDM silk slip — they also sell vintage-style satin bullet bras and a range of bondage-style lingerie, too. Oori Ott designer Hannah Park loves vintage lingerie (“high cuts, satin, and lace”), but says it was hard to find similar, new pieces until Fleur De Mal came on the scene. “The foundation of the styles are vintage-inspired but there are fun, modern details added to them. They fit my tiny, pointy breasts perfectly and support and boost without squishing, padding, or leaving a gap.” Here’s one of their satin styles that has that vintage air without looking overly pinup-y.

Fleur du Mal Satin Hipster
The Great Eros Canova Underwire Bra

We were very excited when Great Eros, a Brooklyn-based lingerie line, opened its doors in Williamsburg. It’s known for a more minimal aesthetic with filmy, sheer designs like this one, which Stella Simona, co-owner of Amarilo and Haati Chai, appreciates for their look and feel. “I​ prefer pieces that are comfortable and sexy at the same time,’’ she says, “and love how ​the ​Eros​ brand​ plays with the idea of being ​sensual and ​understated yet detail-​ and quality-focused​ at the same time.” She finds the wire bra lifting and shaping despite the lack of padding, and that “the extra-high-cut bottoms gives the look of legs for days​.​”

The Great Eros Canova High Waist Bikini
Lonely Label Lena Bra

Another exciting newish lingerie brand is Lonely, the label that creates pretty underthings for women to wear for themselves. They’re also dedicated to diversity in selection and sizing, which means consistently stylish, flattering sets that size up to G in bras and XL in bottoms. Laia Garcia, deputy editor of the Wing’s No Man’s Land, says that finding lingerie with underwire but no padding was a pain until she took up a friend’s recommendation to try Lonely (for what it’s worth, that friend was photographer Petra Collins). It’s now become a favorite: “I like this high-waist Lena because it keeps my body looking smooth under my high-waist clothes (I don’t do the Spanx-type-things). My stomach doesn’t get cut off midsection, giving me two stomach blobs.”

Lonely Label Lena High Waist Brief
WW x Charlotte McKinney Brooke White Chord Longline Bra
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WW x Charlotte McKinney Brooke White Chord Longline Bra

We consider Cora Harrington, who wrote the book on lingerie and runs a site dedicated to chronicling the latest and greatest styles, the expert on the subject. She tells us that if you’re looking for a set that’s special but affordable, “Playful Promises’ recent collaboration with Charlotte McKinney is perfect for you.” The London label likes to issue limited-edition collections like this, which are fun because they size up to 44H in bras, and the price point is nice for the budget-conscious. Here’s just one example from this collection, which Harrington says, “At under $60, only looks expensive.”

WW x Charlotte McKinney Brooke White Chord Detail Brief
Dita von Teese Madame X Wireless Bra

Harrington’s also partial to burlesque dancer Dita von Teese’s line of lingerie for vintage-inspired underthings. “No one does lingerie like Dita Von Teese. Often, celebrity lingerie lines are underwhelming —but Dita Von Teese went to her own extensive vintage lingerie archives for her namesake collection, and it shows.” As a starter set, she recommends this Madame X style — “its trapunto stitching and thoroughly seductive strappy accents is a favorite of lingerie addicts everywhere, myself included” — for wearing out, peeking out from a under a sheer or low-necked top.

Dita von Teese Madame X Bikini
Simone Perele Delice Underwire Demi Bra

For those with small frames and large busts, French brand Simone Perele (one that goes back all the way to 1948, and is generally raved about for their shapewear) carries a rare 30DD. They place a strong emphasis on perfecting fit, so provided you know your size, everything should feel seamless and comfortable. Here’s just one that we’ve tried and would recommend, with thin double straps in front for a more weightless feel and sheer bottoms.

Simone Perele Delice Boyshorts

Soft-cup lingerie

Araks Yanelis Bralette

Soft-cup styles are comfy, liberating things for those with smaller chests — often accented with sheer fabric and low cuts. Araks is one of the more playful luxury brands out there for soft-cup styles: little silky inserts on bras and cheerful colorways are their calling cards. Doria Santlofer, a stylist, takes to them “because the lingerie comes in the most beautiful colors — like lime green or pale orange — so it’s a nice pop of color under my clothes. They also aren’t overtly ‘sexy,’ just feminine and fun and so flattering.” One of their most popular styles is this Yanelis bralette, which she finds extra comfortable: “The matching underwear is made from the softest cotton and the panels of silk charmeuse are pretty for a special occasion.”

Araks Liselott Panty in Carmine
Eres Farniente Mimosa Soft Cup Bra

On the higher end of things, there’s also French swimwear and lingerie label Eres, which has been around since the ’60s: It likes to source its elegant undies from soft jersey and tulle. Model Alex Noiret, learned a more polished, “soigné” attitude about lingerie from her grandmother, but said it “wasn’t until I tried my first set of Eres lingerie that I finally understood what she meant.” Noiret loves that the pieces are “simple and beautifully made, with soft fabrics and lace that provide just the right amount of structure and substance. As a smaller-chested woman, my ideal bra is one that both enhances my silhouette and feels lightweight, like this one.”

Eres Farniente Nirvana High-Waist Briefs
Cosabella Sugar Soft Bra
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Cosabella Sugar Soft Bra

No one specifically called out Cosabella for this story, but it’s a brand we have a soft spot for because everything is so pretty and reasonably priced. We own one or two sets and can vouch that they are comfortable and generally very beautifully designed: We like the lace trim on this one and the winged effect on the bottoms.

Cosabella Sugar Hot Pants
& Other Stories Flower Lace Triangle Bra

And if you’re on a budget, & Other Stories has some nice-looking things. We like the scalloped lace fringe of this top and the vintage feel of these high-waist bottoms.

& Other Stories High Waist Briefs

Negligees, bodysuits, and teddies

Victoria’s Secret Chantilly Lace Plunge Teddy

Items like teddies, negligees, and bodysuits are on the “sexier” end of the spectrum — they’re exciting while keeping you covered up. It’s not shocking that Victoria’s Secret popped up at some point in this category: blogger Nina Huynh wears their teddies, since “more traditional two-piece sets rarely suit my small chest and wide hips,” and likes that while the material on this one is delicate yet sturdy, it just fits: “The plunging neckline lays perfectly on my chest and the material hugs my waist and hips in all the right places. I feel so sexy and powerful in this.”

Only Hearts Whisper Sweet Nothings Coucou Bodysuit

We also heard from an anonymous writer on a certain bodysuit from Only Hearts, a New York–based lingerie label that caters to young people (and has a nice collection of soft-cup things). She almost didn’t pick up this bodysuit, but when she tried it on had a lightbulb moment: “I often feel lumpy in bathing suits, and this would surely be even less smoothing than a normal one, given how sheer it was. But, slipping into it, I was shocked. I looked … great. I felt the deeply unfamiliar feeling of loving my body.”

Savage x Fenty Flock Dot Babydoll

Many were excited about Rihanna’s first lingerie collection last year, because it offered both straight and plus-sizes from the jump. Shammara Lawrence — the plus-size columnist at Teen Vogue — had the pleasure of trying the collection out before the launch and says it’s worth the hype: “I was immediately impressed by the fit of all of the pieces I tried on. As a size 16/18, finding lingerie that not only fits me well but looks sexy and isn’t matronly looking is quite the feat.” She singled out this baby-doll dress as a favorite: “I’ve been wearing it around my house sometimes for no reason other than it makes me feel good.”

Torrid Tara Lynn Microfiber Strappy Underwire Baby Doll Dress

Torrid’s another plus-size staple for affordable, stylish designs, and Lawrence says the retailer’s collaboration with plus-size model Tara Lynn is not one to miss: “It’s the epitome of sexy glamour.” She recommends this strappy baby-doll dress with added underwire for support: “It fits my body like a glove and looks incredibly luxe.”

Empress Mimi Lingerie

And if you want to regularly receive new lingerie, you could also try a subscription like Empress Mimi that makes a range of lacy, boudoir styles catered to your size — they don’t use underwires or padding, for a more natural feel. Everything is handmade and comes shipped to you in a neat little box and subscriptions start at $19 per month. Gigi Engle, a certified sex coach and educator, says she’s become obsessed with it: “They have the most gorgeous sets that come with a nightgown/slip, panties, and a beautiful robe. It’s subscription box, so you get new lingerie ALL THE TIME. I have a long torso and enormous boobs, and I love that it looks flattering on me every time.”

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What Is the Best Lingerie?